Days Without My Ré of Sunshine!

My home girl RB (aka Ré, aka Noushka, but henceforth "R") is out of the country for her birthday cruise to Bermuda that her amazing beau "J" got her as a gift (I know ladies, but sorry you'll need to find your own, ;p). They left last Friday afternoon and as I am now obsessed with these random diaries for my friends when they are away, I almost couldn't wait to make one for her too, so here goes ;p

Day 1: Jolt

         

I woke up at 5:45 am to my hubby kissing my forehead before leaving for Florida. I dragged my behind around moping and getting ready for my workday. As I was starting my car to head to work about an hour later... BOOM! It hit me hard that R's leaving today, gaaaaah! LOL. Happiness, sadness, angst, excitement (in that order) coursed through me like electricity and then I was fine. I stalked Facebook (his & hers) to see if they'd posted anything yet and was rewarded by an "all aboard" pic of R on the cruise ship. Thanks for being on point as always J!!! Happy Sails!

Day 2: Excitement

          

I get home after another day of dealing with the annoying and rude coworker and am draiiined. I'm pretty stoked by now imagining my girl's trip is going great. I know they were worried about the weather, but I'm sending positive sunshine vibes to them, so hopefully they reach :D

Day 3: Impatience

COME BAAAACK! LOL, ok I'm fine. I hate waiting for holiday / vacation photos, I'm terrible at that, ha! I know I have to wait until Friday (or so) when they get back to see the amazingness but I... HATE... WAITIIIING! lol. Ok, seriously though... I'm fine ;-p

Day 4: Wishes

Happy Birthday!!! I think I wrote something silly on her wall about having the same birthday as Harry Potter, and had to throw in a "23" for J, he appreciates that, :). It's strange not to be able to talk to her on her bday, I don't think that's happened since we met... I don't think we've been this far apart on her birthday either actually, haha! Well, it's all worth it to be cruising the seas and not dealing with maniacs at the her job ;p

Day 5: Sad

I'm getting sick and it literally blows! Boo... I hope you're having great weather! It was rainy and gray yuckiness out there earlier but it eased up later on. I had to leave work, was getting sick so I'm leaving work. MISS YOUUU!

Day 6: Recovery

I feel slightly better than yesterday. I think my body secretly makes itself sick b/c it can't stand the thought of not also being on an amazing vacation somewhere... little jealous bunny! Don't ask, I'm not myself right now, lol. I thought about going to do my nails before heading to Fla but I don't think I can make time. I'll sadly have to disappoint the laughing Asian girl who did my nails last time. She was looking forward to it, aww!

I do get to hang out with the girls at Nobs' place tho. Movie and drinks and wishing her sister happy trails (she's moving to Florida, the good side). You'll be missed... the last time I was there, you were telling us that R & J were now officially "R & J". Amazing, right? Haha :)

Day 7: Whaaaaaaaa?

This is the day before Rey returns and I spent some of it rushing like a mad woman to get stuff ready for my own trip to Orlando. Yep, once again, I'm packing until the wee hours in the morning instead of being prepared like I should have been days ago... blah! My only comfort is that I know J will have some pics posted from his phone... maybe exactly 23 of them, hahaha! Ok, I won't push it, but really... at least a couple of pics... 23 minutes apart! BOOM! I'll need something to do, or look at when I get to the airport about 2 hours early, but I'll survive. I'll have my laptop, my NOOK, a book (in case the electronics fail me), and of course my phone.

Day 8: FINALLY!

Yayyyy, R & J are back! (at least I think they are almost here). As always, I knew I could count on J not to disappoint and send a picture; He actually sent two, both of which somehow feed into our madness about the number 23, hahaha! Gotta love!

I'm getting ready for the airport and crap so I will see them when I return Sunday night (seems too far!). In the mean time R, enjoy this mini-diary dedicated especially to you ;). Muuuuuuuuuuuah!

Hair-y Situations

(photo from nappstar website)

So I spent a good portion of lunch break today browsing my beautiful cousins' website (NappStar) and their Facebook page checking out their progress. So proud of you girls!!! I hope someday I get a chance to stop in for a treatment and maybe a mini photo shoot? haha! They look like they're having such a blast out there. They have a salon in Maryland and opened up another one in New York City, so go check them out if you wanna be fieeeeerce :)

Speaking of hair... I read an article today in Newsweek (I know, I'm still in shock!) about the Keratin Treatment. If you didn't already know this about me, I have been fighting with my hair on a daily basis for several years now. What to put in it, what to use on it, what not to add to it, what not to do, the list is endless and unforgiving! The hair has actually been winning in the last couple of years, but if I believe what I just read in that article, this girl could be taking the gold soon... 

My cousin CC told my sisters and I quite a while ago about the wonders of the Keratin treatment. I believed it then, but I sadly have never been able to afford it. I mean, if I had 350 macaroons to drop at once anywhere, it would be at NY & Company or H&M, right ladies? Haha, but back to the business at hand. I thought of trying it as soon as I was able and as time passed (and I still wasn't), I have come to the sad conclusion that I need to do something drastic... like maybe go natural.

Two of my sisters did already (or is it 3 now?!?!), and I think they're happy with their hair. Two of them get braids often and every time they take them out, their hair is longer. I can't remember the last time I had my hair braided and I can't even imagine trying to do that with the blistering heat we're currently experiencing here. Still, I have NO idea what to do. 

Another article I read (yes... I'm on a roll!) said that I could progressively go natural by letting the hair grow, stop relaxing it, and every other week, trim the split ends until all the relaxed hair is gone. The problem with that is, how the heck do I style it in the mean time??? If I keep pulling them into ponytails, they break; if I don't, they break. I should put some product in it, but there is WAY too much out there so what to do, what to doooo??? The second suggestion is the shave everything and wait... riiiiight! That's gonna happen, LOL! I think I'm losing hair just stressing about not losing hair. WTH!!!

Mini Reunions

Lately, my friends from Lycée Guebre-Mariam (junior high & high school) have been having mini reunions on Sundays. We used a video chat on Qivala, and it's so much fun! I am not sure how many of us can populate the cyber-waves on that thing at the same time, but it would be nice to find out, haha!

RZ also created the site so that we'd all have a place to keep in touch specifically with other alumni from that school, and see where our bond would take us. It's grown into its own culture and is actually pretty amazing! I don't think we'll ever tire of reminiscing, commemorating, remembering the amazingly crazy years we spent at LGM... I hope I get a chance to go back and see what it's like today; if anything changed. It probably still looks exactly the same, and the new rugrats are causing as much trouble as we used to, ha!

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The Betty Diaries

This blog is less involved than its predecessor The Veronica Diaries from May, but it shares stories that I believe I will tell generations to come, who certainly will not believe me either...

Day 1

Here we go again...

Man is back at it... Woman 2 returned to work after a 2 week vacation and don't you know, Nutso starts asking her questions as she walks in the office. And I don't mean "how was your vaca?" types of questions either. He's asking her what to do about a new hire who just started and didn't have something or other in his passport. He's explaining that there were changes made since she left, how many people were in orientation, what he collected, what he was working on, bla-di-blaaah! BOO!

I mean, SERIOUSLY??? Can't the woman sit down first? Can she set her purse down? Can't she log into her freaking computer for pete's sake??????? She walked in at 8:50 and at 9:14, she STILL hadn't been able to get away.

Veronica tried to get her an out by saying "Sit down, you just got back! You can get to that after you've logged in... jeez!", but that did NOT deter him. I meaaaaaaaaaan, WOW! That's all I can say on the matter

Day 2

   

Man and Woman 1 spent about 15 minutes discussing the differences between a cow and an ox.

NOTE: This is an approximation as my eyes were twitching and my ears were bleeding, which distracted somewhat from the actual words. Still, you'll get the gist of it.

Man: "Oh, so the one with the spots?
Woman: No, that's a cow. I am talking about an ox.
M: Oooooh? Ox??
Woman: Yes, with the horns?
M: That's a buuuuull???????
W: Nooo, an ox! You've never seen an ox?

*woman puts hands up with the index finger pointing up against her temples and proceeds to make weird "moo" sounds while bending at the waist to simulate the animal.*

Heavy sigh.

Days 3, 4 & 5

Either not much happened there, I was daydreaming the entire time, or I simply blocked it out. There were meetings, which probably went w/o a hitch, and some training sessions I attended. The rest of it was fairly quiet. I'll be so glad to have you back on Monday, Betty!

Happy 1 Year to Me!

It's my 1st Year Wedding Anniversary todayyyyyyyyy! Yeah Baby! We survived our first year as a married couple, which I'm told is the hardest year, and I think if it's possible, I am even more in love than I was on the first day... (nuff sappiness!).


We had a mellow candlelit dinner (if I had bothered to actually light the candles.. blaaah). He made dinner, I poured the wine, haha! Anywhoozeeeee.. we're shooting for some amazing years ahead. Voila! That was all that mattered today :)

Oh Passport, Where Art Thou?

 

So I've been waiting for my new passport for a little while now and the process brings two words to mind: NO.FUN. I keep checking the site with my receipt number, hoping that it will read "your document was mailed on blah blah blah date"... sighhhhhh! It's frustrating! I have plans to travel and get some much needed foreign air, but I guess I will have to wait some more.

  

On a higher note, it's Friday and FINALLY, I get to chill!!! I'm looking forward to this weekend. Lots of good things happening. My niece is turning 16 (you poor thing, you should have stayed a child... lol), there might be a barbecue in my near future, getting my hair done, and definitely some mini shopping. I know, it's not that exciting, but it is to me. I also see looooong hours sitting uncomfortably, buuut, I'll have to just suck it up and say "BOOYAH it's Friday" as often as necessary ;p

Happy 4th!!

Tomorrow is Independence Day in the country I call home at the moment, so to all of you out there who read me from this land: Happy 4th of July!

I am not sure if there will be any plans made, but as long as they involve some cold drinks, good food and lots of laughs, I think I will enjoy it. I will certainly enjoy leaving work early to enjoy the rest of my Sunny day (if indeed it remains that way). For tonight at least, I'm hanging out with my homegirllllz, relaxing and not thinking about work OR school!

Be safe everyone!